just say no

so here's the thing, women tend to be more sympathetic than guys, we therefore are more likely to say 'yes' to things we don't feel like doing. well. those days are OVER and this is why:

people are more likely to take advantage of your kindness

you will come across as weak to your peers

you get distracted from your path

you weren't put on this planet to please everyone you meet

charity and helping those in need--YES--do it, so few people do, but when a creepy guy is being very aggressive at the bar, tell him off. 

this guy needs to chill, it's clearly a girls' night. 

olivia